If I said “This is the story of my life!”, that would be a major under statement. I don’t have much luck in the love department. Either I can’t find someone that I am genuinely interested in or I do find someone I’m interested in but something always goes terribly wrong. So, I’m going to attempt to help out some fellow lost souls and give you a few signs that a guy is NOT interested in you!!!!!
1.You Barely Talk Anymore
This one just more recently happened to me. You guys went from texting, having great conversation in person and IMing each other to him not even bothering to respond back to your texts. Yeah people do become busy but, that does not mean completely ignore the person for weeks on in then decide to contact them. If you are really interested in someone, no matter how busy you are you will find time for that person,especially when you just so happened to see him on Facebook all the time.
2.You’re Not Allowed To Mention Him To ANYONE
I think this is a dead give away that he does not like you. If you have been having sexual relations with this guy and he tells you that he doesn’t want you to talk about you guys with anyone even your friends, then there is a problem. Another thing could be that he is dating/sleeping with someone else. Don’t put up with that, know your worth and know that you are worth more than a guy who is obviously embarrassed of you or sleeping around.
3. He Is UNRELIABLE or lies a lot
I also like to call this the Pinocchio effect!!! If you and the guy have plans and he always “claims” that something came up and he’ll make it up and never does then that is sure sign that he isn’t into you. Or maybe he just lies more than an average person. White lies are fine every now and then because hey let’s admit it we all do it, but when everything about what he does and what he says in completely fabricated then it just may be time call it quits.
4. You Haven’t Met His Friends Or You’re STILL The “Friend”
If you guys have been dating for months and you have yet to meet any of this friends then that may be a sign of a few things:
A.) He doesn’t have any friends
B.) He’s embarrassed of his friends
C.)A LEGIT reason!!! Ex: scheduling conflicts (Can Easily Be Fixed) or his friends don’t live in same area
D.)He’s embarrassed of you ( See Section 2 Above)
If you have already discussed this and he still refuses to introduce you to his friends then you should rethink you’re future together. Also, in some cases you just might be the “FRIEND”. BEWARE OF THE FRIEND ZONE!!!!!! I don’t think I have much to say about the friend zone.
5.) He Make It Known That He Doesn’t Like You
If he tells you straight up one of the following things: “I don’t want a relationship.”, “I DO NOT like you that way.”, or “Let’s be friends.” then he SIMPLY does not like you. Or maybe he just so happen to flirt with your best friend or made out with a random girl in front of you.
I know these are really blunt, but personally I would rather have a guy tell me straight up that he does not like me than waiting by the phone for him to call, text or if you’re socially awkward that may mean waiting for a Facebook message.
I hope this helped someone out and maybe saved someone from the frustration and heart ache <3
- Friend Zone: The Words You Hate To Hear (prinsesamusang.wordpress.com)
- 5 Dating Red Flags [4 the Ladies] (tylatimes.com)
- 5 Things That Will Ruin Your Dating Life (dangerouslee.biz)
- Fifteen types of guys to avoid dating at all costs (indiavision.com)