5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

If I said “This is the story of my life!”, that would be a major under statement. I don’t have much luck in the love department. Either I can’t find someone that I am genuinely interested in or I do find someone I’m interested in but something always goes terribly wrong. So, I’m going to attempt to help out some fellow lost souls and give you a few signs that a guy is NOT interested in you!!!!!

1.You Barely Talk Anymore

This one just more recently happened to me. You guys went from texting, having great conversation in person and IMing each other to him not even bothering to respond back to your texts. Yeah people do become busy but, that does not mean completely ignore the person for weeks on in then decide to contact them. If you are really interested in someone, no matter how busy you are you will find time for that person,especially when you just so happened to see him on Facebook all the time.

2.You’re Not Allowed To Mention Him To ANYONE

I think this is a dead give away that he does not like you. If you have been having sexual relations with this guy and he tells you that he doesn’t want you to talk about you guys with anyone even your friends, then there is a problem. Another thing could be that he is dating/sleeping with someone else. Don’t put up with that, know your worth and know that you are worth more than a guy who is obviously embarrassed of you or sleeping around.

3. He Is UNRELIABLE or lies a lot

I also like to call this the Pinocchio effect!!! If you and the guy have plans and he always “claims” that something came up and he’ll make it up and never does then that is sure sign that he isn’t into you. Or maybe he just lies more than an average person. White lies are fine every now and then because hey let’s admit it we all do it, but when everything about what he does and what he says in completely fabricated then it just may be time call it quits.

4. You Haven’t Met His Friends Or You’re STILL The “Friend”

If you guys have been dating for months and you have yet to meet any of this friends then that may be a sign of a few things:

A.) He doesn’t have any friends

B.) He’s embarrassed of his friends

C.)A LEGIT reason!!! Ex: scheduling conflicts (Can Easily Be Fixed) or his friends don’t live in same area

D.)He’s embarrassed of you ( See Section 2 Above)

If you have already discussed this and he still refuses to introduce you to his friends then you should rethink you’re future together. Also, in some cases you just might be the “FRIEND”. BEWARE OF THE FRIEND ZONE!!!!!! I don’t think I have much to say about the friend zone.

5.) He Make It Known That He Doesn’t Like You

If he tells you straight up one of the following things: “I don’t want a relationship.”, “I DO NOT like you that way.”, or “Let’s be friends.” then he SIMPLY does not like you.  Or maybe he just so happen to flirt with your best friend or made out with a random girl in front of you.
I know these are really blunt, but personally I would rather have a guy tell me straight up that he does not like me than waiting by the phone for him to call, text or if you’re socially awkward that may mean waiting for a Facebook message.

I hope this helped someone out and maybe saved someone from the frustration and heart ache <3

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How to NOT suck at Valentine’s Day!!!!!

If you guys are anything like me, you’ll know what I mean when I say “I hate Valentine’s Day”.

I must admit that for the past few years, I’ve been the bitter single person. The person that never has a Valentine and just sits around eating ice cream, despite the fact that I am lactose intolerant. For years I’ve said things like, “LOVE SUCKS” and “I’M FOREVER ALONE”, but this year things were different. This year I said why be that bitter single person, who brings down everyone just because I don’t have anyone to spend Valentine’s Day with.
Love doesn’t suck… the men I choose suck!!!! Me, like many other women, have a HORRRRRRIIIIBBBBLLLLLEEEE habit of picking the wrong men and also settling for less than what they truly deserve.

The first step to not suck at Valentine’s Day is to just embrace being single,  be happy with your own personal accomplishments and look forward to the future.  This is a great day to show your family and friends that you appreciate them.

So, if you are single during Valentine’s Day and you are being a party pooper just remember that, good things comes to those who wait!!!!!!

I hope this helped turn someone’s frown up-side down. Patience is virtue and knowledge is key<3

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TGIF!!!!! Jan 25,2013

Dear ChurinDUH,

I am a freshman in high school and I’m also a navy brat. I moved from Guam not long ago and at my new school I still don’t know many people. How can I make more friends and become popular?

-A great way to make friends is to join different clubs and sports. This way you can interact with different people and make yourself more known around the school. Popularity and having the most friends is not the most important thing in the world and as you get older you come to realize that. You’re young and you have plenty of time to make new friends and have fun. Just enjoy yourself and surround yourself with people who love and support you!!! <3

If you have any questions about life,love,work, or if you have an article requests for an upcoming post, etc. Feel free to email TGIFQUESTIONS@gmail.com or leave a comment <3 XOXO